“Hello! †I hope this year will be kinder. Not necessarily grander or greater. I’ll go with kinder.” – Me on January 1st, 2021
So how am I after 365 days? Was 2021 kind enough to fulfill my wish? Now that I’m thinking about it, yes and no. However, I guess it’s been kind enough to let me reach its 365th – given the fact that I was soooo not in my element during the first quarter.
But then, despite all the ruptures and the jagged lines that this year surely has come with, I am beyond grateful. Coz though the circumstances haven’t been easy (who am I kidding, they never are, are they? lol), the universe provided me with all the instruments I needed to reach this far. To survive. To keep my lungs afloat from attempting to swim too deep beyond my capacity.
2021 also presented kindness in the form of opening doors for me to cultivate. Though it requires tremendous amount of patience and persistence on my part, I wouldn’t have it any other way. I wouldn’t appreciate the value of these opportunities if I could easily have them within reach. Moreover, the experience is teaching me to fall in love with the process, to savor it, to do my best, and then to let go. I can be controlling and it’s really difficult for me to just wait and let things happen. But I guess 2021 won’t bid goodbye without teaching me this very important lesson. Now, I’m still grappling my way through, still trying to find the beauty in waiting and turning it into a delicious activity. I’m getting there, bit by bit.
So yeah, I had to fight tremendous demons but I believe I wasn’t left without kindness. Kindness has been present in ways more than one. Especially in the form of different first times, through emotions I never deem possible for me to feel, poetry – damn a vicious amount of poetry, more than I’ve ever dreamed of writing (to the muse, thank you đ).
Many thanks, 2021! Hope 2022 will be kinder to me and to everyone I love in the world.
PS
Thank you for making me reach the 7-digit net worth! Cheers to more abundance! đ€